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For the single gal, it’s time to get ready, spring clean and get out of the house to find and meet Mr. Right.
Here are some tips to follow with the Boys Before Business system to make your “Have It All” journey magical:
1) Get Ready
Know what’s important to you and determine your Core Values. Write down what you want and complete your Dear God Letter.
Then you’ll know who’s Mr. Right and who’s just a fling.
2) Spring Clean
Clean your closets and the rest of your single girl’s haven. Make room for him. Toss the old clothes, make-up and stuff from boyfriends past.
Make your bedroom a room for two and a place dedicated to snuggling and cuddling.
Change your environment so he feels like he fits in.
3) Get Out of the House
Out you go to find him with your Core Values & Dear God Letter in hand and with your home and heart open.
Schedule time to go out to the places you’d like to meet him. From the bars to the local yoga class and from the park to the popular bike or hiking paths, do what you love and your Love will find you.
Spring is a great time to meet him! Use your Dear God Letter to differentiate which ones are the flings and who’s Mr. Right.
Success is simpler when you use the Boys Before Business system.
“It’s Your Time to Have It All!”
After Thanksgiving, the holiday spirit really kicks up a notch. Couples are more visible – at parties, out shopping in the stores and going from family to friends to office holiday parties. If you are one of those who want to be in a couple but aren’t yet, take a few hints this season from the happy couples you see.
What is it about them that you admire? Are they affectionate? Do you like the way they communicate and laugh with one another? Maybe it’s the way they hold hands or how he’s always the gentleman who opens the door for her and offers a hand to help her out of the car?
When you hear yourself say: “I wish I had someone like that who was with me,” write down whatever it is that strikes a chord with you. This is a great insight into what kind of relationship you desire. These little details make a big difference for the couple you are noticing – and also in the relationship that you want to build.
Think about the small stuff that makes a difference for you. What makes you feel supported? What makes you feel loved? What provides you with that inner feeling of being appreciated? Write these all down as you can identify them. This is the information you’ll want to share with your Mr. Right when you meet him. These are the exact pieces of the puzzle that make it easy for him to be Mr. Right.
Make your wish list and believe in it. This is your season to have your dream come true.
It’s your time to have it all!