Posts Tagged ‘man of your dreams’
Start The Year Out Right
This is your year for happily ever after. You have decided. The question is, are you committed? To have it all you are going to have to be committed to taking action. Finding Mr. Right is possible but you must be willing to put in the time and effort. As we have said before, go find Prince Charming instead of waiting for him at the door.
Before we help you get ready for the love of your life, we want you first to get rid of your excuses.
Top Excuses For Not Finding Mr. Right
1) I don’t have any time.
2) All the good men are taken
3) I don’t want to have to give up my career
4) I don’t know where to meet him
5) I need to lose weight first
Girls, don’t let these excuses sidetrack you from having the life you want. You may be satisfied right now with life and maybe you were like us and thinking this is as good as it gets. No more status quo in 2011! It’s time. So what can you do?
Here’s how to start:
• Determine what you want. Know what you are looking for so when you find him, you keep him. Write your Dear God letter today.
• Decide what you will give up in order to get what you want. You might have to forego watching your favorite show to go out on a blind date or skip spending time on Facebook to go on Match.com. You might have to leave work on time to go to an event.
• Associate with people who will help you get what you want. Surround yourself with people who support you and tell them what type of person you are looking for.
• Have a plan and work your plan. Join a dating service, start taking a class, schedule time to put yourself in a position to meet the right person.
Next, believe it is possible. You need to be excited about your life in love! Tom Barret says, “It is time to dust off your hope. Dust off your belief. Dust off your confidence. Dust off your determination. And it’s time to Dust off your dreams.”
Why?
Because you are either going to dust them off or cast them off. That choice will impact the direction and quality of your life for years to come.
It’s your time to have it all!
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Looking For Love vs Looking For Looks
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “What we seek we shall find…”
When looking for Mr. Right or that right business relationship, keep in mind that you will eventually get what you are looking for. What’s most important is to be clear about what it is exactly that you are seeking.
We know that when you look for something in particular, you are seeking certain qualities and characteristics so your awareness of these traits is raised. You are more sensitive to them so you will readily pick them out when you see them.
Here’s a simple exercise to play with for a moment to understand what we mean: the next time you are in a crowded room with lots of people or you are going to a mall to shop, focus on just finding the people who are wearing red. Chances are, you will start seeing a whole bunch of people wearing red-because that’s what you are looking for and focusing on.
The interesting thing that occurs for many women is that we tend to look for a man with good looks instead of looking for a man who will love us and who we can love.
As we like to say: Don’t look for the man you can live with; look for the man you can’t live without.
Looking for a man who is tall, dark and handsome may preclude you from seeing and meeting the man you really could fall madly in love with. We know this firsthand and can attest to the benefits of looking for the qualities and traits of the man and relationship you want to have, instead of just looking for good looks alone.
In business, getting clear about the types of people you want to work with and the qualities and characteristics they possess is similar to seeking the man of your dreams. The process is the same. Using tools like the Dear God Letter are the same to clarify what you want in the professional relationships you are seeking.
The more you seek, the more you shall find.
So take the time to make the effort to clarify who it is you really want to be with. Then seek him out and build the life of your dreams with the man you love.
“It’s your time to have it all!”
Need help figuring out who’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.
Make Finding Him An Adventure
The thought of dating can be an overwhelming idea.
You know you want to meet the man of your dreams but where are you going to go to find someone who matches your core values and interests? Sometimes it just seems easier to hang with your friends then bother with finding Mr. Right. What if looking for Prince Charming really was easy and fun and it was worth the effort?
What would you be willing to do to get what you want?
To have it all, you will need to do some ground work so why not make it fun! Start by taking that class that you have always been wanting to, join a new club or go to some place new. Make finding him an adventure. Create a list of all the things you have been saying you want to do and start checking them off your list. Journal about your adventures. And while you’re doing all the things on your “bucket” list, you just might find him.
