Is Yours the Greatest Love Story Ever?
Take your notebook and your iPod, head off to the park, and write your love story about how Boys Before Business helped you meet and keep the man of your dreams and win a Sandals getaway vacation! And if you haven’t found him yet, that’s okay! Reply to this blog and tell us how you’re doing with your search, how you are using the Boys Before Business strategies and what your challenges and triumphs are. We are here to support YOU! Take this weekend to rest, relax and rejuvenate your spirit!

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Boys Before Business is excited to announce that Sandals Resorts is giving away all-inclusive vacation packages to couples with the Greatest Love Story Ever! You and your Prince Charming can win an all-expenses paid trip for two!
The Royal Wedding is right around the corner, and Kate and Prince William’s story is a wonderful example of how a girl really can have it all! A few weeks ago, Boys Before Business wrote a blog entry about the importance of being open to receiving the man of your dreams and realizing that sometimes he doesn’t come in the package we expect him to. Do you remember reading it? This same thing has happened to Prince William and Kate! The press refers to Kate as a “commoner,” and she and her soon-to-be husband are breaking all of the old rules about whom a Prince should marry. Typically, a prince is supposed to marry someone from royalty, which Kate is not. But once again, true love can and does overcome everything. For Prince William, where his finance comes from is much less important than who she is and how he feels about her. Congratulations to them!

So tell us: Where did you meet your Prince Charming? Was his arrival a total surprise, or had you been planning for him? Has your relationship flowed easily, or did you have some bumps along the way? What were the challenges that the two of you had to successfully overcome, and how has your love been able to rise above these challenges? And finally, how have you been able to HAVE IT ALL?

Boys Before Business has had the pleasure of collaborating with Beaches Resorts By Sandals as curriculum trainers during their fun BFF Girls Getaway programs. We are excited to be visiting the Turks and Caicos resort in May and again in October. During those visits, we will be lounging in the sun, getting massages, and maybe even be taking a catamaran cruise! Of course, we will also be talking about strategies that will help you find and keep the man of your dreams.
We are excited to share the news with you about this great contest! Send in your entries, and don’t forget to include how you were able to find and keep the man of your dreams, and how Boys Before Business helped you do it! Good luck!

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Of course you do! He kept waking up and living the same day over and over again until he got it right. Of note: That whole day included getting his relationship with Andie MacDowell’s character right too.

Do you keep feeling like you keep living the same relationship mistakes over and over again?

Well, this year, it’s time to do something different…and let us help you.

Oftentimes, similar to Bill Murray’s character, you may experience the same situations time and time again with your romantic relationships and your business relationships. Like him, you may keep doing something different and finding lots of options that don’t work.

It’s time to get out of your relationship rut and discover what does work. It’s time to get the tools you need so you can stop spinning your wheels and finally have it all.

This week, take the following 3 steps to begin your Boys Before Business journey to having it all:

1) Join our newsletter (it’s free!)

2) Schedule 60 minutes in your calendar to listen to our free teleworkshop about The First Steps to Having It All

3) Follow us on Twitter @BoysB4Business and get daily tips for your relationships with both boys and business

You have a choice: you can keep waking up to the same relationship struggles and heartache or you can choose to start having it all.

Really…

Isn’t it your time to have it all?!

These days, maybe the opposite is true: you spend more time thinking about business and less time believing in love.

We know. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that you can still find love, but we know it’s possible… as long as you want to.

Oftentimes in the conversations we have during our workshops around the country, we find that women have lost their belief in love and feel that it’s no longer something that they can experience in their lives.

Cher has a great quote that we love: “If grass can grow through cement, love can find you at every time in your life.”

You see, finding love starts with the belief that you can find it, find him and that you deserve to have it all: boys and business.

When you believe it, you’ll see it and see it manifest right before your eyes. When you open your heart, soul and spirit to love, inevitably you will attract it and by golly, love will find you.

By keeping your eye out for the man you feel is your Mr Right and by revising and refining your Dear God Letter as you meet different candidates to determine who’s really right for you, you just may find that Huey Lewis was right when he asked, “Do you believe in love? Do you believe it’s true?”

And then you’ll find that Huey and the boys summed it up perfectly when they sang:

“They say that all in love is fair/ Yeah, but you don’t care
But you know what to do/ When it gets hold of you
And with a little help from above/ You feel the power of love
Can you feel it?”

May 2011 be your year to embrace and celebrate the power of love… Sing it, Huey!

Need help figuring out who’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.

Before we help you get ready for the love of your life, we want you first to get rid of your excuses.

Top Excuses For Not Finding Mr. Right

1) I don’t have any time.
2) All the good men are taken
3) I don’t want to have to give up my career
4) I don’t know where to meet him
5) I need to lose weight first

Girls, don’t let these excuses sidetrack you from having the life you want. You may be satisfied right now with life and maybe you were like us and thinking this is as good as it gets. No more status quo in 2011! It’s time. So what can you do?

Here’s how to start:

• Determine what you want. Know what you are looking for so when you find him, you keep him. Write your Dear God letter today.
• Decide what you will give up in order to get what you want. You might have to forego watching your favorite show to go out on a blind date or skip spending time on Facebook to go on Match.com. You might have to leave work on time to go to an event.
• Associate with people who will help you get what you want. Surround yourself with people who support you and tell them what type of person you are looking for.
• Have a plan and work your plan. Join a dating service, start taking a class, schedule time to put yourself in a position to meet the right person.

Next, believe it is possible. You need to be excited about your life in love! Tom Barret says, “It is time to dust off your hope. Dust off your belief. Dust off your confidence. Dust off your determination. And it’s time to Dust off your dreams.”

Why?

Because you are either going to dust them off or cast them off. That choice will impact the direction and quality of your life for years to come.

It’s your time to have it all!

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Need help figuring out who’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.

As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “What we seek we shall find…”

When looking for Mr. Right or that right business relationship, keep in mind that you will eventually get what you are looking for. What’s most important is to be clear about what it is exactly that you are seeking.

We know that when you look for something in particular, you are seeking certain qualities and characteristics so your awareness of these traits is raised. You are more sensitive to them so you will readily pick them out when you see them.

Here’s a simple exercise to play with for a moment to understand what we mean: the next time you are in a crowded room with lots of people or you are going to a mall to shop, focus on just finding the people who are wearing red. Chances are, you will start seeing a whole bunch of people wearing red-because that’s what you are looking for and focusing on.

The interesting thing that occurs for many women is that we tend to look for a man with good looks instead of looking for a man who will love us and who we can love.

As we like to say: Don’t look for the man you can live with; look for the man you can’t live without.

Looking for a man who is tall, dark and handsome may preclude you from seeing and meeting the man you really could fall madly in love with. We know this firsthand and can attest to the benefits of looking for the qualities and traits of the man and relationship you want to have, instead of just looking for good looks alone.

In business, getting clear about the types of people you want to work with and the qualities and characteristics they possess is similar to seeking the man of your dreams. The process is the same. Using tools like the Dear God Letter are the same to clarify what you want in the professional relationships you are seeking.

The more you seek, the more you shall find.

So take the time to make the effort to clarify who it is you really want to be with. Then seek him out and build the life of your dreams with the man you love.

“It’s your time to have it all!”

Need help figuring out who’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.

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We’d like to hit the pause button on the DVD or BlueRay player and suggest that you take a moment to think about this:

Before you venture out to find Mr. Right, be complete with yourself.

As the new year rolls in, make a commitment to be complete with past relationships you’ve long abandoned, past jobs you’ve left behind and all the people who weren’t really supportive of you in your quest to find the right man for you. Close these out once and for all so you can regain the energy that any thoughts and feelings about these have been draining in your life.

Sweep out the old to make room for the right and bright new ones.

Now, get clear, really clear, about who your dream man is and what career you really love. Understand what is most important to you. Be certain. Be confident. Be complete with both: boys and business.

Then actively seek the life you say you want. Write it down. Use the Dear God Letter to prioritize what you absolutely must have to make it right. Make a point of reading through it every day.

Keep in mind: What you think about, you bring about.

By keeping these details at the top of your mind, you’ll tend to focus on finding what you desire, instead of what you don’t.

So when you finally say that famous follow-up line like Dorothy did in Jerry Maguire, you can say it with confidence because you know you are complete. You know what you really want. You’ll recognize him in an instant and then you’ll hear yourself say:

“You had me at hello.”

It’s your time to have it all!

Need help figuring out what’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.

There are some things you can do right now to get ready for the life of your dreams in 2011. Our new newlywed, Shawn, started her search for Mr. Right by cleaning out her closets and making room for him. That’s right, out with the old so the new can walk in. Now is the perfect time to throw out anything that you haven’t worn or used in the last year and it’s the perfect time to donate what you don’t want, to charity.

Give your home and office a once over and create environments that support your goals.

Next, decide what you want, what you truly want. One of the biggest things that can hold you back from everlasting love is you not being clear about the type of person you want to attract or what you are seeking as the next phase in your professional life. Take time to write your list of who and what you want. Use www.deargodletter.com/bbb to make it easy and fun.

Surround yourself with a visual representation of what you want in your life. Create the vision board you promised yourself you would. Gather your girlfriends together and have a vision board party. We offer a simple kit that includes everything each of you will need to complete yours. Play music, have fun and really celebrate what’s next for you. To get the kits for your party, see our BBB vision board.

As the year comes to a close, write down all of your successes for the year. Commit to doing the BBB work to find your true love in the new year and toast yourself because you are on your way to having it all!

It’s your time to have it all!

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The best solution for holiday blues or stress is to come from a place of gratitude. Start by making a list of all the people you are grateful for in your life. Then add to the list the things you are grateful for in your life. Share with the people on your list your thoughts and feelings and let them know how much they are appreciated.

When you come from a place of gratitude and are able to fully appreciate what you DO have in your life, you will find it’s a powerful way to let go of what could have, or should have been. Being in a state of appreciation is the same as being in abundance. Your focus is on what you do have and you always get more of what you focus on.

Having awareness of everything you do have in your life and by showing appreciation, you can start to attract the right people into your life. Relationships can actually be energized simply by showing appreciation.

During this time of year, keep your focus and gratitude on what you do have instead of thinking about what you don’t have. Fill your calendar with fun events with people you care about and keep your mindset on what you do want.

It’s your time to have it all!

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