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We are very proud to present a new inspirational short movie called “The One Flaw in Women.” It has been produced as a tribute to women around the world and is brought to you with the hope that it might brighten your day and do the same for the important women in your life.

We are honored to be affiliated with the movie and feel privileged to contribute content to their website.

Women are a beautiful and integral part of our lives.  They are strong, courageous, caring, sensual, loving and hold a special place in our hearts. Women are why we wrote our book.

Yet even though they impress us with who they are, there is still one flaw that all women have.

Today, I invite you to gift yourself and the women in your life a few moments to feel inspired and uplifted.

So sit back, turn up your speakers and enjoy! Just click this link to watch this 3 minute movie now: http://www.TheOneFlawInWomen.com/movie/1884

Thank You.

Jen and Kim

P.S. This movie is a gift and shall be shared as such. Please “Pass It On” by sharing this powerful experience with the most important women in your life.

Finding the right man can be scary.  You have built a life for yourself and you are happy and the thought of change can be scary.  Doubt can creep into your mind quickly raising questions about what if it doesn’t work out.  Again think of your language, and start thinking about what if it DOES work out.

Sometimes it seems easier to go it alone, why bother at all with finding Mr. Right.  Finding him might mean you might have to compromise, change your schedule, open up, take a risk and what if you waste your time and he’s not the one?

If you have been single for awhile chances are you are content.  You have built a life that suits you and you are happy so why rock the boat.  Why take the chance at possible heartache and what if you spend all this time with someone who turns out to be Mr. Wrong, then you have wasted valuable time.

Instead of thinking about all the things that scare you, go back to when you were a little girl and think about how you envisioned your life and your relationships.  Did you picture your life holding hands with the man of your dreams, traveling to exotic place, growing old and swinging on the front porch?  All those dreams are still possible.  It’s up to you to believe in them again and take action.

Tell us what scares you the most about finding the man of your dreams in this weeks poll http://bit.ly/aoTUIo

Are you scared because…

1) It might not work out & I wasted my time
2) Your lifestyle will have to change
3) You are set in your ways
4) You’re afraid of making a mistake
5) You’ll have to compromise

Anna Paquin, the star of HBO’s True Blood and Academy Award winner says it best in her interview in the July issue of Self Magazine. “Fitting somebody else’s model doesn’t make you happier. You’ll live a full and happy if you pursue things you think are important and live the life you want to live.” We couldn’t have said it better ourselves.

Boys Before Business wants you to live the life you want to live. It is time to know what you want and be confident in getting it.

When asked if she was happy about her weight, Anna said, ” I don’t know too many women who are 100 percent happy, but I’m the happiest I’ve been. For me, it has more to do with being fulfilled in other areas of life, not how many hours I’m at the gym. If you’re not happy in other areas of your life, you’re not going to be happy with the way you look.”

We always say don’t stop looking for Mr. Right, the right job or business relationship just because you want to lose those extra ten pounds. Go create your own happiness now and get fulfilled with the things you like to do so you can be happy and attract the person you want.

Men love happy confident women. Find what makes you happy.

Need help determining what really does make you happy? Join us for an eye-opening free telephone class about vision boards. They can help you visualize the life you want to live – one that’s filled with happiness, joy and the love you are seeking.

Click here to sign up for the call now and join us on Tuesday, June 29th at 5:30pm PT: http://bit.ly/cOIFbb

Boys Before Business has gone on a single celebrity girl watch to determine which famous gal will breakthrough and finally have it all this summer.

Co-authors Jennifer S. Wilkov and Kimberly Mylls will be keeping an eye out for who’s practicing their Boys Before Business philosophy, “You can have a great life and you can have a great love, when you decide what you want and put your relationship first.”

From Jessica Simpson to Jennifer Aniston and Drew Barrymore to Reese Witherspoon, the co-authors say they’ll be watching and cheering them on.

“We want them to be happy and finally have it all. We’re excited to have other women see celebs practicing what we teach. It’s really rewarding,” say Wilkov and Mylls.

Boys Before Business will acknowledge celebs who follow the philosophy with the Have It All Award.

In their #1 spot right now is “Bachelorette” Ali Fedotowsky. On the first episode of this season’s show on ABC Television, Ali says love not work is number one on her agenda. “I definitely have a lot of regret,” she says of her decision to leave Jake Pavelka (last year on “The Bachelor”) to return to her job — one she’s now quit! “I’m ready to move forward,” she swears. “Bring on those boys. I’m excited. “She’s hoping her journey will end “with tears in my eyes and I’m looking at a man down on one knee, asking me to be his wife.”

In the third episode last week while on her date with Hunter, Ali admits that she has been so career-driven in the past, perhaps because of watching her Dad give up a lot to support her Mom’s nursing career when she was younger and not focusing on his own career. She then saw their relationship end in a divorce. She says she has had a hard time giving her career up for love. She agrees when Hunter suggests that she has her own plans for life and that she doesn’t want to mess that up.

The co-authors say that they know it’s scary for every woman to open their hearts to the love they’ve only dreamed of. Loving your career and being able to share your success with your Mr. Right is a dream come true, whether you’re a celebrity girl or not. They say they are certain that it’s possible for every woman that truly wants to succeed with both boys and business to finally have it all.

Stay tuned to the Boys Before Business blog at www.boysbeforebusiness.com/blog to find out who will win the first award.

Last month we had a great time in Miami, however there was one mystery that still remains . . .

While sitting in the green room at WSFL for an appearance on The Morning Show, the producer told us that the copy of the “Boys Before Business” book that she received from our publicist to give to the on-air host Kristin Anderson had gone missing.

She said she sent emails and made several announcements asking to get the book back… and no one fessed up.

Not to worry though, we came to the station for our interview prepared with copies of the book.  We hope the person who snagged the book is having great luck with boys and business and is maybe even following Kristin’s advice of putting the book under her pillow.

See our great Girlie Chat with Kristin during our interview here: http://southflorida.sun-sentinel.com/videobeta/f680cd80-6c07-4a42-905a-a301fe94ecf8/News/Boys-Before-Business.

Since we have been on the show, @HostessKristin has tweeted us that she is almost finished reading the book and she said it’s FABULOUS!  Thanks Kristin!

Last year on ABC’s hit show The Bachelor, audiences were disappointed when one of their favorite women, Ali Fedotowsky, left the show because her job was calling.

At the time, Ali told Jake that although she was falling in love with him, she couldn’t stay.  She picked her career over the possibility of love.

Fast forward to this season’s The Bachelorette and we find a wiser Ali who is back.

According to ABC online they say, “This time, love not work, is number one on her agenda.

“I definitely have a lot of regret,” she says of her decision to leave Jake Pavelka to return to her job — one she’s now quit! “I’m ready to move forward,” she swears. “Bring on those boys. I’m excited.”

She’s hoping her journey will end “with tears in my eyes and I’m looking at a man down on one knee, asking me to be his wife.”

During the first episode, Ali talks about her decision and admits she made the wrong choice. She says she won’t make that mistake again and that she is making finding true love her priority.

She now realizes the importance of putting relationships first. Those 25 men who are vying for her love can rest assured that her priorities are in order and that she will be making them number one.

Our guess is once she decides on her dream man, she will soar even higher in her career.

See for yourself.

http://abc.go.com/shows/the-bachelorette/episode-guide/episode-1/441529

It’s time to break out your flip flops, shorts, skirts, white pants and sleeveless tops… and get ready for some summer lovin’!

June is a great month to do some shedding.

Shedding makes room in your body, mind and space for new love, new energy and new adventures.

Here are some easy tips to freshen up your life & love style for summer this month:

1) For the Body

Schedule a day at the spa. Grab your girlfriends and make a day of it. Be sure to book a full body exfoliation treatment to shed that old skin off and brighten up and tighten up the vibrant skin below that’s ready to shine. Look fabulous and feel great for your summer love.

2) For the Mind

Take a good look at your time and money. Time to eliminate the activities that you’re not loving to free up funds and hours for new fun with friends and business colleagues.

Do your finances need to freshen up? Take time this month to clean up your personal and professional accounts.

These activities will all serve to make lots of room in your mind to focus on building better relationships.

3) For Your Space

Shed your stuff and air out your space.

Got boxes around from a move you recently made?

Have a drawer that you filled up with those famous words: “I’m gonna…”?

Got a handbag you need to empty out from changing quickly to a new purse so you could match your new Spring outfit?

It’s time to spruce up your desk, drawers and domicile. Breathe some new energy into your life and space… and open yourself up for new possibilities.

Shed and let go of what you no longer need.

When you do, you’ll make more room for him and the relationships that really count.

It’s Your Time to Have It All!

Sex and the City opens this weekend!

This is a great time to grab your girlfriends for some good ole fashion Girlie Fun.  The women of Sex in the City are on a constant quest to have it all.

They are all strong women who know what they want and who go after their dreams.  They each have different goals, dreams and personalities but they also have a very important common value, they put their relationships first.  They take time for each other and are there for each other for the good times and bad.

Having these relationships have made them all more successful in their personal romantic relationships as well as their professional lives.  They have all had their ups and downs but they have managed to come through with shining colors.  We know it’s a movie and not real life, but why can’t it be. When you put relationships first you can have the Hollywood movie ending.

Think about the relationships in your life and how they have enhanced your days, months and years.  Relationships are truly what make you rich.  Have fun at the movies and afterward decide what it is you want and go for it.

It’s Your Time to Have it All!

Boys Before Business is excited for their latest stop on their National book and event tour.

Thursday May 20th we kick off the weekend at Saks Fifth Avenue with our live Girlie Chat.  The fun starts at 6:00pm at the Dadeland Mall.  For all you single girls ready to have it all we have the answers on how to start living your dream life.

Start the evening off with make-up with Trish McEvoy, then learn two key steps to help you with boys and business.  We are going to be joined by the women of singleandfabulous.com and the amazing meet-up group Fabulous South Florida Women.

Our Beaches Resort partners will be at Saks and you can learn more about the Beaches Friends Forever Girls Getaway and how you can have fun at Turks & Caicos Resort Villages & Spa

One lucky person at the event will win our Have It All Package, your complete Boys Before Business proven system.  This could be you!  The best part of this incredible night is it is Free!  We want you to come for the fun and leave with the tools you need to Have It All!
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Saturday it’s off to Borders at the Dolphin Store (11401 NW 12th Street) at 5:00 pm.  We will answer all your questions on how and where to meet your Prince Charming and how to keep him.  You will also learn why you should never settle for Mr. Good Enough because you can find Mr. Right!

It’s Your Time to Have it All!

The Boys Before Business Tour is heading to the beach!

Next week we’ll be in sunny Miami, FL, and South Beach for our events in South Florida.

We’re excited to work with Saks Fifth Avenue at the Dadeland Mall and the Single & Fabulous organization in South Florida for this great evening of fun, make-up by Trish McEvoy and a live Girlie Chat – BBB style.

It’s easy to join us on Thursday night, May 20th from 6:00 – 8:30pm. Click Here to RSVP.

In the Fall, we’re heading off to Turks & Caicos as we’ll begin teaching the Boys Before Business system during the Beaches Resorts (by Sandals) BFF Girls Getaway program.

Now is the time to begin your plans to get away and join us at one of the loveliest beaches in the world.

To get more information so you can start planning your girls getaway with your BFFs, Click Here now.

It’s Your Time to Have it All!