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As the holidays begin to creep up on everyone, you may be dreading another season alone and being the “single girl” around the holiday tables.

We encourage you to do a little pre-year-end review of the relationships you’ve had so you can really get clear about the one you want to have now.

As you look back on each one, identify first what you liked, what you enjoyed doing and your favorite, favorite parts of it. These are probably the qualities you’d like to repeat in a new relationship. Next, think about what you didn’t enjoy and experiences you wouldn’t want to live through again.

You see, past relationships leave clues so you can clarify the characteristics you’d like to have in the next one.

Maybe you’ve heard the expression, “I keep creating the same relationship with each new guy.” Well, we’re here to tell you…you don’t have to!

What you have to do to stop the cycle of choosing the same guy or creating the same relationship is reflect on the past, get clear about what you experienced, understand what you liked and what you want to change…and then keep what you liked and make new choices about the man you want to be with and the qualities you want to have in your new relationship.

We also recommend updating your Dear God Letter once you’ve completed your review. This is the best way to solidify your new choices so you can write them down.

Every relationship you have gives you more information about you.

Consider looking at your other relationships for clues too – family, friends and business colleagues. What are the qualities you like about these? Maybe you’ve even seen a pattern in these relationships where you have changed them over the years.

Take time now to visit your past relationships and take a good look at the clues you find.

We know when you do, your dream relationship will be that much closer and your holidays will be even brighter.

It’s Your Time to Have It All!

How easy is it to walk down the aisle in no time?

When you follow the Boys Before Business philosophy and use this every day, you’ll get clear about the relationship you want to have and the characteristics and traits of the man you want to share your life with. Walking down the aisle starts with focusing on the relationship you want to have and setting up your life to support it.
Kim used the Boys Before Business philosophy to meet and marry the man of her dreams in just 9 months and Jennifer is now in her dream relationship. We understand what its like to be single, 40 and frustrated, yet still want and believe that you can have it all. We even felt bit bewildered about how to get it? It wasn’t until we started using the philosophy that we started to see the pieces of the puzzle fitting togehter

Why does the philosophy work? Most of us, as professional single women, are excellent with creating great business relationships and getting our jobs done well. It’s the romantic relationship we want that usually takes a backseat to our business opportunities and schedule.

The philosophy supports you with a new way of thinking about how to schedule your life to support you having it all – the dream romantic relationship and the fabulous business career at the same time.When we say in the BBB philosophy: “…decide what you want and put your relationship first,” we know that these are the keys to making the shift in your life to find, meet and keep the man of your dreams. We know. We had to rearrange the way we thought and approached the romantic relationships in our lives. Learn to use the Boys Before Business philosophy by going to www.boysbeforebusiness.com and reserving a copy of your book today.You will receive the first chapter “The First Steps to Having It All” to get you started with your journey to walk down the aisle..

“It’s Your Time to Have It All!”

Kim and Jen

You can have a great life

You can have a great love

When you decide what you want and

Put your relationship first

Years ago, Betty Friedan wrote about the single girl and the more than 21,000,000 women that were still looking for Mr. Right.  Some were married, most were not.  They all dreamed of living the “happily ever after” life filled with Prince Charming, a career they loved and enjoying the balance that they felt continuously eluded them.

But the question remains: does this fairy tale exist? 

And if it does how do you get it? 

Stop the presses because we have cracked the code for this age old quest for the quintessential life women everywhere want.  What’s the secret?  The secret is simple, you put your relationship first and make it a priority.

Welcome to the Boys Before Business blog where our mission is to coach women on how to have the life they want. 

We believe that every woman can have it all – the man of her dreams and the dream career.  This delicate balance of life’s greatest pleasures is possible when you put “Boys Before Business”.

Imagine a life filled with fun, excitement, romance, passion, financial stability, recognition and happiness.  Dream big.  We’ll teach you how to love your life.

“It’s Your Time to Have It All”