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As the seasons change, take time to think about your past relationships.  People come into your life for seasons, reasons and for lifetimes.

Notice if there is a common denominator and highlight all the positive aspects of each relationship.

Finding Mr. Right is possible when you let go of boyfriends past and take action to meet someone new.

Take that leap of faith and break down any wall you might have built to protect you from getting hurt.  In the journey to find love, you have to put yourself out there and believe you can find him.

As we get older, we sometimes forget to let our guard down so we can let someone walk in.  If you want that happily ever after and true love, then you must be ready and willing to accept it.

You never know if the next person you meet is for a season or a reason, or if he’s the one for a lifetime.

“It’s Your Time to Have It All!”

Kim and Jen

Understanding how you think and operate in the world gives you the power to approach the dating scene and your relationship from a more centered and focused perspective.

Once you understand what you want, how you want to feel and how you want to be in a relationship, you can start your search for Mr. Right in much more powerful way.  The same principles apply for finding your dream career.  The key to manifesting is to understand what you want first and then go seek what it is you want.  Accept nothing less.

Being centered and focused on finding Mr. Right and making this a priority will have a huge impact on all areas of your life.  It is when you are clear that magic starts to happen in all aspects of your life.

By informing others in your world about who you are, what’s important to you, how you approach the world and most importantly – what you want, you will provide them with the tools and details for how to help you get what you need to succeed.

It all begins by defining your values, being clear about the relationship and career you want to have, and articulating that clearly to others so they can help you get it.

“It’s Your Time to Have It All!”

Kim and Jen

How many times have we been focused on our career only to go home and wish we had someone besides our friends to share our success?

Imagine what it would be like to go home to a supportive loving man and share your day and your triumphs.  It sounds almost too good to be true.  But it’s possible.

When you’re in the right relationship the support and encouragement you get from the man of your dreams can actually fuel your fire and inspire you at work.  We have seen this happen time and time again.  Everything we teach in our book and in our weekly lessons on how to find the man of your dreams also applies to building an even greater career.

Putting people and relationships first might be controversial for some but think about it…when you put your personal relationship first you develop a level of confidence and security so at work you don’t have any personal distractions.

Do the same thing with your colleagues, clients and customers. Put those professional relationships first while you are at work and you will see people will enjoy working with you more and they will feel the same confidence and security you feel in your personal relationship and chances are you will develop more professional loyalty.

Every year at the holiday season, do you find yourself “the single girl” at the holiday parties amidst others in couples?  Wondering how many more parties you’ll be invited to where you show up as “the single girl” with or without a date?

Maybe this year we can help resolve the catch-22 of being too busy to find the man of your dreams because of your career and finding yourself all alone again with no one beside you at holiday parties and friendly gatherings of good cheer.

You still have time this Fall to find and meet the man of your dreams while working and building your amazing career.

What if you could finish the year strong in both business and your personal romantic life?  Think it can’t be done?  We know.  We were you.  Year after year, holiday after holiday all throughout the Fall.

From Halloween parties and hayrides to Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa and the New Year, stop hugging the wall this year and start finding the man of your dreams to hug instead.

It’s easier when you put “Boys Before Business.”

You’re still not too late to find him this year.

Use these 5 simple tips to get you started:

1) Make a list of the top 10 traits that you’d like in a mate.
State these in positive statements.  Use “he does,” “he likes,”,
“I like it when he…,” or “he will” statements.

2) Next, look at your calendar.  When will you make time in your
busy schedule for him?

3) Now, decide if you are willing to put “Boys Before Business”
and if you are ready to meet the man of your dreams.

4) Put forth the energy, the belief and the faith that you too can still
find him this year.

5) Believe it’s possible for you to meet him.

Regardless of what others think or say, it’s your time to have it all!

Sometimes we make excuses to ourselves as we search for our own Prince Charming and “have it all” lifestyle.

We say to ourselves: I need to work out more first; I want to change jobs; or even, asking ourselves: “Who’s going to be dating during this economy?”

It’s interesting, isn’t it? How we put out reasons why it’s just not possible for us to find and meet him.

We want to give you reasons why now is always the perfect time to find him – bad economy or not.

The truth is most people – men and women – want to meet that special someone to share their love and lives with.

Oftentimes, we are the ones who count ourselves or others out by making up and disqualifying any chance of us meeting him.

We’ll grab on to any excuse.  All we’re really doing is putting off that which we said we wanted.

Believe it, there are a bunch of reasons why it’s totally possible for you to find and meet him in any economy.

Think about it:  Some of the longest marriages you might know of may have gotten their start during the Depression era, one of the worst economies the U.S. has ever experienced.

In fact, my grandparents on both sides met during the Depression era.

On my Dad’s side, they met when my grandfather barely had $5 back then.  On my Mom’s side, my grandfather had about $35.

They were both happily married for over 60 years to the woman they loved and fell in love with during one of the most challenging economic times we’ve seen in the U.S.

You see, you can find, meet and keep him in any situation, circumstance or condition – or economy.

If they could do it then, we can do it now.

As the cliché goes:  Love really does conquer all.

It’s your time to have it all!

Summer’s almost over.  If you still haven’t met him, there are still fun ways to find him and insightful ways to prepare yourself to meet him.

Finding him is a process.  Look at the people you’ve met.  What did you like about them?  And what would you rather change?

Evaluate each relationship and make this part of your process.  Observe and chat with couples you admire.  If you know them, talk with them about what makes their relationship great.  Whether you know them or not, notice what they do, how they interact with each other and identify what you seem attracted to in their relationship.

Are these qualities in your Dear God Letter?  What about in your vision you’ve been writing about?

Take 5 minutes each day to read your letter and visualize the relationship you want to be a part of.  This process helps you get clearer and clearer so when he does show up, you can recognize him almost instantly.  You can also describe clearly the relationship you want build with him.

Do your best to not compare yourself to other people in their relationships.  Instead, focus on you and compare yourself to how much you have grown from the last relationship and what you have learned from your own experiences.

Be honest with yourself: determine if you are moving forward or making the same mistakes.  If you find that you are re-creating the same relationship, it just may be time to do something different.

To find the right person, you have to make finding him a priority and put Boys Before Business.  It will take time and effort – and when you do, it will take you right into the arms of the man of your dreams.

We’ve noticed that for years many women have struggled to find their Prince Charming and have often felt that this part of their lives has eluded them. We also noticed there were some common denominators with women who are having difficulty finding the one.

Whether you’ve reached that point of saying “It will never happen for me,” or “I just wish someone could tell me what to do to get it right,” perhaps now is the time to be aware of these common pitfalls:

• Women don’t define what they want in their Prince Charming – they often take on whoever comes along.
• Women feel like they’ll make room for him in their lives when he shows up instead of focusing on preparing their lives to have both a great relationship AND a brilliant career.
• Women fill up their schedules to be busy and feel important and loved.
• Women were taught there is plenty of time to find romance. Focus on your career first and make sure you can take care of yourself.

So what can you do to avoid making theses mistakes?  If you are reading this thinking, “That’s me!”  Maybe it’s time for some helpful hints to steer you in the direction of how to really find Prince Charming. It’s not like years ago someone offered you a class like home economics or shop where you learned the do’s and don’ts for finding Prince Charming. But there are some easy tips to start working with to get this right so you can find him.  It’s still possible.  Here’s a few to get you started:

1)    Decide what qualities the men you date must have before you meet them.  This will make it easier to recognize whether the men you date are just one time dates or potentially so much more.

2)    Understand what’s important to you in a relationship and get clear about how you want to be treated in a romantic relationship. Remember: being vulnerable is good.  If you look like you don’t need or want him, in his eyes — you don’t.

3)    Pick a day on your weekly schedule that you leave open to do something new and meet new people.

4)    Look around your house.  Is it “boy friendly”?  Is there room for him in your house?  We are proud of you for taking care of yourself, being independent strong women and creating a great environment for you.  But is it just that — for you? Or would he find your home welcoming too?

These simple tips and techniques will help demystify how to find Prince Charming and start you on the steps to finally meeting him.

We know it’s been a long road.

It’s about to pay off.

You can really have both – your brilliant career and a fulfilling romantic relationship.

To learn more and take a few more simple steps, join us on our upcoming tele-workshop  Click here to register today http://www.boysbeforebusiness.com/teleworkshop.html.

It’s your time to have it all,

Kim and Jen

You’re you an attractive, smart woman with a lot going for you, but you just haven’t met the right man? You’re not alone.  Millions of other single women are just like you.  Some sit and wonder all the time and talk to their girlfriends about “where is he?”  Or they question why they haven’t met him.  Some of us even wonder if there is something wrong with us?  Others take action.

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Which are you?

Do you really want to be in a relationship?  Do you see your life filled with passion, romance and fun?  If you do, and you’re not willing to give up the search then let us help you.  You can do what we did to meet the man of your dreams.  Stop going this alone.

Wouldn’t it be better to be surrounded by women who understand your journey.  We know it isn’t easy to find Mr. Right.  But we know it’s possible.  Maybe you just need some help.  We did.

Now we are going to teach you everything you learned to you can Have It All.  We are going to guide you every step of the way.  We are going to help you know exactly what you want so you can get it.

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Instead of sitting around wondering where is he, wouldn’t it be better to talk about a romantic weekend you just came back from, or kissing all night, or even making wedding plans?

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It’s your time to have it all,

Kim and Jen

Are you wondering if you are destined to be single?  Do you think it is impossible to meet a great guy? Are you frustrated that you have a great career and everything else in your life is great but you are missing out on having a great relationship?

We felt all of these things and we know how you feel.  Even more important than us understanding where you are coming from, we have the answers to help you have the relationship you want and still have everything else in your life.  For us, “having it all” meant we were with the loves our lives and we had fantastic careers at the same time.  Of course, we also had our health and great friends too.

Being successful in your career is one thing. Being successful in love is another. If your love life is non existent, it is time to rethink what you are doing in your love life.

You have heard our stories about how we found our dream relationships.  Kim had just turned 40 and had never been married.  She was questioning the notion that there really is someone for everyone.  Then in a matter of a week she met the man of her dreams and 9 months later she married him.

Jen practiced the same principles and philosophies and now she is in her dream relationship.

Do you want to know how we did it?

We’re going to tell you.  That’s why we created an AMAZING program so you can learn how to FIND HIM, KEEP HIM AND HAVE A BRILLIANT CAREER.  We’re going to share with you exactly what we did so you can do it too. You’re going to get

You won’t be disappointed.  We guarantee it

This program can literally mean the difference between being in a loving, fulfilling relationship as opposed to being single and alone.

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You can have a great life

You can have a great love

When you decide what you want and

Put your relationship first

Years ago, Betty Friedan wrote about the single girl and the more than 21,000,000 women that were still looking for Mr. Right.  Some were married, most were not.  They all dreamed of living the “happily ever after” life filled with Prince Charming, a career they loved and enjoying the balance that they felt continuously eluded them.

But the question remains: does this fairy tale exist? 

And if it does how do you get it? 

Stop the presses because we have cracked the code for this age old quest for the quintessential life women everywhere want.  What’s the secret?  The secret is simple, you put your relationship first and make it a priority.

Welcome to the Boys Before Business blog where our mission is to coach women on how to have the life they want. 

We believe that every woman can have it all – the man of her dreams and the dream career.  This delicate balance of life’s greatest pleasures is possible when you put “Boys Before Business”.

Imagine a life filled with fun, excitement, romance, passion, financial stability, recognition and happiness.  Dream big.  We’ll teach you how to love your life.

“It’s Your Time to Have It All”