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The Power of Love
In the 80’s, we all danced around to Huey Lewis & The News singing about whether we believe in love and about the power of love taking us back to the future. Remember that? Those were the days when we were carefree, loved our boys and probably weren’t thinking much about business.
These days, maybe the opposite is true: you spend more time thinking about business and less time believing in love.
We know. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that you can still find love, but we know it’s possible… as long as you want to.
Oftentimes in the conversations we have during our workshops around the country, we find that women have lost their belief in love and feel that it’s no longer something that they can experience in their lives.
Cher has a great quote that we love: “If grass can grow through cement, love can find you at every time in your life.”
You see, finding love starts with the belief that you can find it, find him and that you deserve to have it all: boys and business.
When you believe it, you’ll see it and see it manifest right before your eyes. When you open your heart, soul and spirit to love, inevitably you will attract it and by golly, love will find you.
By keeping your eye out for the man you feel is your Mr Right and by revising and refining your Dear God Letter as you meet different candidates to determine who’s really right for you, you just may find that Huey Lewis was right when he asked, “Do you believe in love? Do you believe it’s true?”
And then you’ll find that Huey and the boys summed it up perfectly when they sang:
“They say that all in love is fair/ Yeah, but you don’t care
But you know what to do/ When it gets hold of you
And with a little help from above/ You feel the power of love
Can you feel it?”
May 2011 be your year to embrace and celebrate the power of love… Sing it, Huey!
Need help figuring out who’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.
Start The Year Out Right
This is your year for happily ever after. You have decided. The question is, are you committed? To have it all you are going to have to be committed to taking action. Finding Mr. Right is possible but you must be willing to put in the time and effort. As we have said before, go find Prince Charming instead of waiting for him at the door.
Before we help you get ready for the love of your life, we want you first to get rid of your excuses.
Top Excuses For Not Finding Mr. Right
1) I don’t have any time.
2) All the good men are taken
3) I don’t want to have to give up my career
4) I don’t know where to meet him
5) I need to lose weight first
Girls, don’t let these excuses sidetrack you from having the life you want. You may be satisfied right now with life and maybe you were like us and thinking this is as good as it gets. No more status quo in 2011! It’s time. So what can you do?
Here’s how to start:
• Determine what you want. Know what you are looking for so when you find him, you keep him. Write your Dear God letter today.
• Decide what you will give up in order to get what you want. You might have to forego watching your favorite show to go out on a blind date or skip spending time on Facebook to go on Match.com. You might have to leave work on time to go to an event.
• Associate with people who will help you get what you want. Surround yourself with people who support you and tell them what type of person you are looking for.
• Have a plan and work your plan. Join a dating service, start taking a class, schedule time to put yourself in a position to meet the right person.
Next, believe it is possible. You need to be excited about your life in love! Tom Barret says, “It is time to dust off your hope. Dust off your belief. Dust off your confidence. Dust off your determination. And it’s time to Dust off your dreams.”
Why?
Because you are either going to dust them off or cast them off. That choice will impact the direction and quality of your life for years to come.
It’s your time to have it all!
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Need help figuring out who’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.
Looking For Love vs Looking For Looks
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “What we seek we shall find…”
When looking for Mr. Right or that right business relationship, keep in mind that you will eventually get what you are looking for. What’s most important is to be clear about what it is exactly that you are seeking.
We know that when you look for something in particular, you are seeking certain qualities and characteristics so your awareness of these traits is raised. You are more sensitive to them so you will readily pick them out when you see them.
Here’s a simple exercise to play with for a moment to understand what we mean: the next time you are in a crowded room with lots of people or you are going to a mall to shop, focus on just finding the people who are wearing red. Chances are, you will start seeing a whole bunch of people wearing red-because that’s what you are looking for and focusing on.
The interesting thing that occurs for many women is that we tend to look for a man with good looks instead of looking for a man who will love us and who we can love.
As we like to say: Don’t look for the man you can live with; look for the man you can’t live without.
Looking for a man who is tall, dark and handsome may preclude you from seeing and meeting the man you really could fall madly in love with. We know this firsthand and can attest to the benefits of looking for the qualities and traits of the man and relationship you want to have, instead of just looking for good looks alone.
In business, getting clear about the types of people you want to work with and the qualities and characteristics they possess is similar to seeking the man of your dreams. The process is the same. Using tools like the Dear God Letter are the same to clarify what you want in the professional relationships you are seeking.
The more you seek, the more you shall find.
So take the time to make the effort to clarify who it is you really want to be with. Then seek him out and build the life of your dreams with the man you love.
“It’s your time to have it all!”
Need help figuring out who’s really right for you? Start with our free tele-workshop where in 60 minutes we’ll help you to identify what’s really important to you in a relationship and how to write your own Dear God Letter.
New Year New Love
How can another year have passed and you still haven’t met the love of your life? You might be thinking you can’t have it all and maybe you’re thinking you are just going to be satisfied with your life the way it is right now. Stop your stinkin’ thinking! There is no reason to settle for status quo when you can have it all!
There are some things you can do right now to get ready for the life of your dreams in 2011. Our new newlywed, Shawn, started her search for Mr. Right by cleaning out her closets and making room for him. That’s right, out with the old so the new can walk in. Now is the perfect time to throw out anything that you haven’t worn or used in the last year and it’s the perfect time to donate what you don’t want, to charity.
Give your home and office a once over and create environments that support your goals.
Next, decide what you want, what you truly want. One of the biggest things that can hold you back from everlasting love is you not being clear about the type of person you want to attract or what you are seeking as the next phase in your professional life. Take time to write your list of who and what you want. Use www.deargodletter.com/bbb to make it easy and fun.
Surround yourself with a visual representation of what you want in your life. Create the vision board you promised yourself you would. Gather your girlfriends together and have a vision board party. We offer a simple kit that includes everything each of you will need to complete yours. Play music, have fun and really celebrate what’s next for you. To get the kits for your party, see our BBB vision board.
As the year comes to a close, write down all of your successes for the year. Commit to doing the BBB work to find your true love in the new year and toast yourself because you are on your way to having it all!
It’s your time to have it all!
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One Event Can Change Your Life
From Kim Mylls, Co-Creator of Boys Before Business
There were ten of us in a circle on the last day of a week long Jack Canfield event one summer not too long ago.
Jen and I looked across the circle and something clicked. I liked what she said. She liked what I was saying, so much so that mid-sentence Jen blurted out, “I’d like you to be my accountability partner.” I said yes instantly, not even knowing what she wanted in a partner.
What happened that week changed everything for me and our partnership was the icing on the cake. Together we wrote a book and are now on a mission to empower millions of women. The book has been just the beginning.
The results of that week were beyond any of my expectations. Here’s the short list of what happened:
- I met the man of my dreams shortly after that event. Three months later we were engaged and nine months later we were married
- I fulfilled a life long dream of writing a book
- I created another business with a person I met at the event
- I improved every relationship in my life
- I used the same tools and techniques in my everyday business and was able to teach and train and inspire my team to reach their goals
What are your dreams? Have you given up on them?
What haven’t you been able to achieve on your own?
What’s stopping you?
Who is in your circle of influence? Are you spending time with people who lift you up or bring you down?
If you are serious about achieving your dreams, you have to go to this event.
Click Here to see the event. 
Of the 400 people who were there, I stay personally connected with more than 100. Each of them have done things that they never thought possible and have made their lives extraordinary. I know I can reach out to any one of them at any time and get the support I need. Now that is powerful!
Do what you can to go to this event. Make any sacrifices you have to so you can attend. This week will change your life for the better. It was the best investment I could make for both my personal and professional life.
You are worth it and you deserve to have it all!
Do Vision Boards Really Work?
There has been a lot of talk about Vision Boards ever since the movie, The Secret, came out a few years ago.
So do visions boards really work?
How is it possible that by creating a visual representation of what you want, it can become a reality?
It sounds a little too good to be true and frankly, a tad unrealistic. We both questioned this for some time and then we tested it. Now we know that Vision Boards do work and we have the results to prove it.
Here are two examples of what happened for us:
(1) Kim wrote her Dear God Letter and got really clear about what she wanted in her Man. She found pictures of happy couples and she made sure that she had a picture of a couple in wedding clothes. She put those pictures on a Vision Board and today she is married.
(2) Jen and her honey, David, wanted to adopt kittens, but not just any kittens. They found a picture of the the kitties they wanted. Sure enough, when they got a call from the rescue agency, the kittens looked exactly like the picture they had cut out of a magazine.
Coincidence? We don’t think so.
Vision Boards are based on the Law of Attraction which states that we receive what we focus on, whether positive or negative. Vision boards take the Law of Attraction one step further. By defining what your dreams are and putting them in picture form, you in turn give yourself increased focus and clarity.
Vision Boards can be powerful when you attach your feelings to the vision of what you want and act as if your dreams have already come true.
Not sure if this still sounds impossible? Find out for yourself by joining us on a FREE teleclass to learn how you can create one for yourself and discover other ways it can work for you in your life. It is a positive way to spend an hour that could change your life.
We want you to get results and we know this call will help you get the results you want. Register http://bit.ly/cOIFbb
BBB’s Fun In The Sun in Miami
This week we head off to Miami and South Florida for some BBB fun in the sun.
You can watch us…
On TV: Watch Channel 39 on Thursday morning at 6:50am for our live interview and on Wednesday we’ll be on South Beach at The Betsy Ross Hotel taping a segment about blogging and our blog with Jennifer Santiago of Plum TV’s “The Juice” which will air on Friday.
Stay tuned!
In Print: See the article about us on page 34 in the South Miami News this week and The Miami Herald loves our book too! Look for an article mention about us in this week’s paper.
On the Internet: We enjoy these blogs in Miami….
http://www.miamiherald.com/opinion/blog_directory/
http://www.catholicsingles.com/new/miami-catholic-singles.html
http://www.datehookup.com/Singles-FL-Miami.htm
http://www.socialmiami.com/faces_and_places.asp
http://www.blogcatalog.com/blogs/miami-events-happenings-in-miami.html
http://www.miamidowntownlife.com/
Join Us LIVE: Thursday night, May 20th, from 6 – 8:30pm, join us for our Live Girlie Chat at Saks Fifth Avenue at the Dadeland Mall, 7687 N Kendall Drive, Miami, FL 33156. RSVP required.
On Saturday night, May 22nd, at 5pm, join us at Borders in The Dolphin Mall, 11401 NW 12th Street Suite 512, Miami, FL 33172.
We look forward to seeing you in sunny South Florida this week!
“It’s Your Time to Have It All!”
A System for Success
Finding Mr. Right while at the same time enjoying your career can sometimes seem like an impossible task. Most single women have wondered at one time or another “Can I have both, is possible to have it all?”
The good news is, yes you can have it all. The better news is, Boys Before Business has a proven system of success to help you.
Having it all just got easier. We are giving you a roadmap to success all you have to do is say yes to your journey and let us walk you through our steps. We know they work because they have worked for us and for other women. If you follow our system you can’t fail. So decide if you are going to take that leap of faith and do the work. Yes there is work. You will first prepare to meet the right man.
There are a number of components to preparing, everything from making time to cleaning our your closets and even understanding what you want. The next phase is building the relationship. This means learning how to communicate and compromise and gain more clarity.
Then the final phase is being a dream team together and applying all you have learned in your personal relationship to build a better career. Simple yes, not always easy, but definitely worth it!
If you are in Dallas then learn more on how our system can work for you by joining as at one of our three events April 23-25th.
- Friday Barnes and Noble at Lincoln Park at 6:00 pm
- Saturday Saks Fifth Avenue at the Dallas Galleria 10:00 am
- Sunday Barnes and Noble at Preston & Park Plana TX 3:00 pm
If you are not in Dallas start your Boys Before Journey by taking 60 minutes and listen to our teleworkshop designed to give you the first steps to having it all. http://www.boysbeforebusiness.com/teleworkshop.html.
Look for us in a city near you. http://www.boysbeforebusiness.com/events.html.
- I Want to Buy “Boys Before Business”
- Buy from Barnes & Noble
- Buy from Amazon.com
BBB Works –Success in AZ!
It has only been one week since we were in Arizona for our book signing and Girlie Chat, and guess what? Boys Before Business already has TWO success stories from our event and book tour. That’s how fast the first steps can work for you!.
After leaving the workshop at Saks Fifth Avenue one of the participants went home finished her Dear God Letter and met a man that seems to fit her list!
While reading the book and getting clear about what she wanted, another fan went out on a date with a co-worker that turned into another date and another and then he asked her to be exclusive. She said, “the book works!”
Here’s what other attendees have said:
“The principles I learned at the Girlie Chat are applicable to many areas of my life and I can’t wait to get started.”
“What I learned will take my business and personal life to the next level. I haven’t been this excited in a long time. I feel I have the tools I need to succeed.
“This concept can revolutionize the way direct sellers build their business”
It truly is your time to have it all!
- I Want to Buy “Boys Before Business”
- Buy from Barnes & Noble
- Buy from Amazon.com
BBB Works With Saks For Our Live Girlie Chat Events Starting Next Week in NYC
Boys Before Business takes its live Girlie Chat workshop into Saks Fifth Avenue starting this month in New York City next week!
This is a very special event that requires a reservation, as this is one of those private events you’ve always wanted to attend.
We know and teach that it’s important to look and feel good – so we are working with Saks and Trish McEvoy to help you enjoy being and feeling beautiful. That’s a big part of having it all!
Our first event is at the flagship Saks Fifth Avenue store in New York City on Thursday, January 28th, from 6:30 – 9:30pm. To RSVP and join us, you must send an email to respond. Here’s what to do: send an email to info@boysbeforebusiness.com with subject line: COUNT ME IN AT SAKS! and include your full name and the full name of other guests you will be bringing with you. You must respond no later than Friday, January 22nd, to get on the private guest list.
If you are in Phoenix, AZ, join us for Valentine’s Day at the Saks in Phoenix at the Biltmore Hotel. We will be working with Saks to have a fabulous Valentine’s Day celebration and look forward to welcoming you there.
And… a Big Announcement!! Our Dream Boys will be with us in Arizona!! Meet Rob & David, the men of our dreams, who will be with us to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Where else would they be but with us on Valentine’s Day??!!
We look forward to sharing the Boys Before Business Experience with you this year.
Check http://www.boysbeforebusiness.com/events.html to see when we’ll be coming your city this year to celebrate the Boys Before Business philosophy with you.
It’s your time to have it all!
